“Trust once broken can’t be repaired; the line of damage is always visible”.
Marital Infidelity can wreck a happy married life, devastating not only emotions but spoiling children and bringing a huge imbalance in the life of all the family members. Basically, the platform of any wedding bond is trust but when that intimate bond is shattered, it is almost difficult to rebuild. Forgiving can be superficial but the excruciating experience associated with the painful miseries always lurk in the mind of offended spouses. The notion that such incidences can happen again, always guards their mind with pessimistic thoughts. The affronted spouse may forgive him but can’t forget the experience ever as she can’t walk blindly and give it a chance to make the incidence happen again. She might also put up barriers of protection on his counterpart. Usually, people who are engrossed in such an affair do not comprehend about its bitter consequences.
The repercussions are many and entire family has to bear its gruesome outcomes as a result of marital infidelity-
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Distrust:
The trust once broken can’t be built again, no matter how hard the other spouse tries. His all convincing skills fail and the relationships become strained forever. The relation always stays painful and the soreness is beyond description.
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Memories hardly give a chance to the offended spouse to make a happy place in the heart:
Whether it is a happy occasion for the family or a public celebration outside, the offended spouse finds it difficult to feel the closeness with the partner.
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Other members of the family members also experience the melancholy:
Whether it is the girl’s parents and siblings or the boy’s parents and siblings, miseries surround the families of both due to the acts of cheating spouses.
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Wounded spouse puts lots of obstacles:
She may not allow him to walk out with someone, she might keep a track on all his phone calls and she also keeps him mentally stressed by uttering offensive words.
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No support:
The case of marital infidelity makes the wife shatter completely as she is the lady who has sacrificed everything in order to attain his love and care. Her all dreams come to an end. If she is not earning, she will not have any finance in her hand. She is financially broken. The moral support that she used to get from her husband is snatched too. Her mental peace is gone forever. Physical pleasure is the demand of every human being and now she can’t experience a healthy sex life too. The case becomes worse when the cheating spouse contemplates the fall but doesn’t leave his lover.
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The entire responsibility of kids:
She is no more secure as kids become her responsibility now. The lady can’t trust his deceitful husband for kids as nobody other than the mother can give affection to the kids. Kids freely can’t share their emotions with either their father or the father’s lover. In most of the cases, lovers are highly concerned about the whole property and may not allow the kid’s father to spend money on them as a result kids become emotionally shattered when their demands are not met. They may not get support in their studies too and their standard of living falls.
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Kids learn a bad lesson from their father:
When the child watches a healthy environment at home, he is likely to learn good things. On the other hand, if he watches negative activities of his parents, the feeling of revolt burgeons in his mind and they get involved in malpractices. Many children turn to be scoundrels. Some get engaged with the person of opposite gender at a very small age and devastate their lives too.
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The line of partition always exists:
No matter how hard a cheating spouse tries to convince his offended partner, the line of partition is difficult to abolish once created.
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Mental disorders:
Sometimes the rage takes a deep seat in the heart and shows the outcome in the form of some severe disease like heart-attack. Anxiety, agony, depression and rage are some common emotions experienced by the wounded partner. However, sometimes, the outcomes are so severe that person thinks to go for suicide. He/she might also suffer from various kinds of mental disorders.
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Offended spouse even plans for a murder:
The feeling of betrayal is so hard that he either plans to kill the husband’s lover or strategically plans for his spouse’s death. The gut wrenching hurt is indescribable.
It’s good to cry when your heart is broken otherwise you will think of taking revenge which may even devastate your life.
Remember, a family is the heavenly abode that cherishes all your dreams and stands by you at the time of need and mere one incident of cheating spouses can bring a huge explosion in the life spoiling all his associates.
“Whatever it is- “Infatuation or lust “the gain is always small and temporary in contrast to loss that is permanent”.