Lust, obsession or infatuation whatever is the reason; if you have become part of infidelity it’s not going to pay you in good. It will spoil your nuptial bond for sure. Usually, infidelity accounts for divorce in most of the marriages. But before both the partner decides to separate themselves, it is necessary that they understand the reason behind it. Poor communication, lack of endeavours to resolve the issues due to ego clashes, lack of intimacy and financial constraints are some of the major causes of the breakup.
At this time marriage counselor comes into the picture. He talks to the husband and wife and tries to turn a threatened relationship into a soothing one. These are qualified advocates that have done intensive studies and have loads of experience in solving such issues. Their tips and tools help save the marriage.
If you are one of the cheating spouses who have raised any infidelity issues, it’s your turn to solve it on your end by seeking the assistance of a qualified marriage counselor.
If you have broken the bond of trust and want to maintain your relationship now, here are 5 ways by which you can safeguard your wedding bond.
- They should talk to the marriage counselor and work on the grounds of infidelity:
The cheating spouses should talk to their counselor and discuss the issues of the husband-wife relationship in details. They should confront and accept their blunder wholeheartedly. At this point, the counselor carries the conversation with both the partners separately understanding the gravity of the situation. He makes the offended spouse understand that the situation arouses because of the blaring reasons and it hampered the relationship. The questions asked by the marriage counselor will make both the partner realize their pitfalls. Counselling greatly assists in building the relationship and turns even a divorce case into a healthy relationship.
- Cheating spouse can discuss their issues with the counselor without bringing it to the notice of their wife:
They call it a safe place to discuss their emotions. They understand the severity of their affair and do not want to hurt their spouse’s emotions at the same time. Getting the full confidence of the counselor, they try to work out a solution comfortably. They also discuss various ways by which they can come out of their lover’s trap. On the other hand, they also talk to the counselor regarding maintaining their relationship till the end. By contacting a professional counselor who works with moral obligations and does not disclose any secrets to his wife is the best solution that a cheating spouse can get.
- Cheating spouses discusses the processing of their emotions with the counselor :
Marriage counselors offer remarkable solution-oriented outcomes. By discussing the culprit’s emotions, anger, anxiety, happiness, sadness, excitement etc, they try to understand their physical, mental and emotional state. Thereafter they bequeath them with effective strategies as in what to do under such circumstances. Thereafter they can work with their emotions and then take the decision regarding their marriage. The questions would be categorized under two sections-
- What are his expectations from the marriage?
- How would the culprit feel if the marriage is broken?
- Will the affair be successful in giving the culprit everything that he expects from his current marriage?
- How will he feel after his marriage is broken?
- Will he be able to connect with his existing lover?
- Counselor assists the cheating spouse with the next plan of action:
If the affair is limited up to infatuation or lust only, marriage will break. But if the affair is more than that and cheating spouse wants to live with both the relations forever, then the counselor guides the cheating spouse with the future outcomes in terms of family health, his personal health and the social outcomes discussing the deep consequences of the case. To figure out the things in a better way, the counselor teaches the culprit with the effective steps for taking their wedding beyond the affair while making the knot of marriage stronger.
- Counselor also assists the cheating spouse to prevent any affairs in future:
Some spouses have a tendency to get attracted to people of opposite sex very soon. Though they understand the consequences of the situation well, but can’t stop their urge for lust or infatuation. A professional and well-experienced counselor assists the cheating spouses with a myriad of remedies.
The counselor may suggest following remedies-
- He talks to the culprit’s wife.
- He talks to the husband and discusses all the matters in details as in how often he wants to have sex with his wife?
- Why does he not feel the attraction for his wife?
- What special qualities he sees in his lover? Is it finance or sexy appeal?
- What if his wife leaves him?
If you are also entangled in any such trap, discuss the matter with a qualified professional on time before your marriage wrecks.
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Yes I agree! I’m a stalker. Looking manny freshs girlfriend reminds me of how much I give a flying fuck.. Yes yes FUCK YOU TOO! And bring me a bundle… See how much worst the presence of this person makes me in life… Im just such a well behaved guy… Just like daddy. Im sure he fucks with the H
I think it’s getting old. Do you?
and I said..
all in want for Christmas is a bundle. A 1/4 ounce of trees. A bottle of Johnny walker blue and case of MGD.
Notice you won’t be on that list. I expect it to be a 30 minute session. And I prefer no kissing. Unless you want to share my STD and you know what? I still prefer no kissing! Just a 30 minute session is all I need. And that would be 2x a week. And I have a mistress for the other times. So it’s adds a bit of spice to the recipe you know what I’m saying… I mean I been doing it for a few years and you wanted to come along and add fuel to the fire why not triple my nightmare. I could have gotten a degree and a masters in that much time, did you know that? That must have been 2x longer mental torture than my previous Internet stalker. So yea.. this time I learned my lesson. I leave the love to your “ex” manny fresh. Now there’s a man who has game. I’m not really a women’s man and actually gave up on that part of my life. I prefer the 30 min sessions and I don’t bitch or moan cause I learned to know who I am and my place in life. So let me say it one last time.
all in want for Christmas is a bundle. A 1/4 ounce of trees. A bottle of Johnny walker blue and case of MGD.
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I think you have some serious angry issues butt hole. It’s guys like you that need you ass kicked.
shut the fuck up. What do you expect? I’m gonna take an anger management course. Hahah. How about you tell the judge next time I’m in court! Instead of a fine. Look just got back from laying in bed and relaxing with my Asian mistress don’t need the distress right now. Just wanna lay here and think about how I can convince my lady to leave her job to marry me.. It’s just impossible! It’s just mind boggling how much money my Asian sweetheart makes.. What a doll. A pleasure to be around. Telling you dude… Asians ladies are the best! Full body relaxation and a happy ending and then some. Starts if off with the bbbj and ends with the cip with rubber. I love China probably moving there soon.. See if they are offended by my anger problems
Oh your a big man that has a tiny penis. You are so big a tuff behind your computer needle dick. Your the pig that can pick up a woman at a rub and tug Your such a loser.
No actually I have a large penis. Not the biggest. But many of the women I have been with have said its perfect cause it’s not too big and not too small it’s just right. And this wasn’t a rub and tug spot. This was full service home dawg!!!! Are you affiliated with law enforcement? Cause you better take your pork smelling ass across the street to the other spot. Don’t worry I know about full blown Hungarian whore houses that have detectives out front guarding the place. And I fucked a few of those women, just nasty! I can def see the low life job of the cops as I fuck this girl with the way she is dressed and her perfume. The setting in the room the line of chicks on the couch to chose from all 45 yr old whore bags that have been hookers since they are 18. You know the ones that are with cops and the house is even being protected by the cop car parked right outside. Undercover cop don’t think I can’t spot one? Pretty nasty people those cops! It’s even funnier how they protect the house think your under investigation when you come out of there? And yea man.. The ladies love my penis much more than you. I have been in the Asian brothel while a brother is giving it to the 120 lb Asian. I can hear her screaming from 3 doors down not even kidding around! So your talking shit about my peeker and your not causing her so much pain so you better watch out playboy. Cause when I’m in that room I treat the lady with respect and she loves to pleasure me cause the person I am. Not a dirtbag cop who thinks he has a big dick but can only stick it in 1/2 way with that foreskin… Becareful who your talking to.. I can feel her bone cause I’m all the way in..now you know why they say the Jews are the choosen ones. So now before my cock son!
Kneel before my cock pig!
It figures the only place you can get laid is where it cost you a fist full of 50’s. Of course they are going to tell you that you have a big penis. Your such a sucker. You the kind of guy that would be in the VIP club and my girls and I would drink for free all night. We have all worked you fool. So needle dick keep paying those Asians pig. That is the only relationship you will ever be in.
I would need a magnifying glass for that needle dick
Hey man. It was $80. That wasn’t a fist fill of shit. Actually that was 1 hr worth of work. Hahaha. And saved me more money than chasing some girl around buying her weed and drinks. And last I heard I ain’t buying drinks from you. I believe I was sneaking in my $1 beers just as long as that black peeople music doesn’t make me throw up. Then you’ll be cleaning that up won’t you superstar..
Yea I got a hand full of pills and you think I’m paying $5 a beer. Haha yo.. You almost forgot me police dept I sell fucking drugs. Am I drug dealer according to your records? well time to update your records dawg cause anything you want is what I got… And your ladies will give me whatever I want for what they need.. Get the facts straight.
Let’s do it your way. The law abiding way. I run you a bar tab $200 easily by the way Ricky Ricardo. Let’s go drive around in my car waste my gas my time and my energy while you smoke the best weed NY has to offer. And ohh.. Maybe I can get a peck on the cheek. Maybe we should do it my way. 2call system opens the door let’s me in. Money on the counter her panties are on the floor..
we can do it your way or my way. I prefer the sumthin fo nothin way!
I heard you need the blue pills to get it up. If you have to pay for it your a loser if you ask me. If you have small penis that is the only relationship you will be in with the Asian Massage Parlor. Plus I’m not a cop needle dick.
If your not site admin then your Natalie.. And she’s mad at me cause I posted her
O yea well if I am right about who you are. Then you come from a family of Mexican police officers. Hahaha.. Hmm…
And as as for paying for it. Everyone pays for it one way or another. But in your case you’ll be paying me for it. I need some drinks. And food. So make sure to bring you credit card! Take your credit card to the liquor store and that one for me and two for you and by the night.. I’ll be loaded like a freight train.. Flying like an airplane. Feeling like a space brain one more time tonite!
This was a good article and apparently someone struck a nerve with this idiot who has to pay for sex. I think he needs some serious help if you ask me.
Other then that this is a interesting website to say the least. I wonder how many of these post are real? I have googled some of the names on Dating Complaints, and there seems to be a pattern here. So I am starting to believe these true post.