The world is full of love till the time you are in love. Everything looks perfectly happy and you will keep on falling in love with that person every day, trust them limitlessly and believe in the relationship more than anything. However, it rarely happens that we think and imagine ourselves trapped with a cheating partner, extra marital affair or infidelity. Finding out that your spouse has been cheating on you can leave your motionless and lifeless while the information sinks in. It will blow your self-esteem, your body will feel lousy, your stomach falling down and you are just not able to handle your own weight.
Of anyone you have known, your spouse is most probably the last one you should be worried about betrayal. But unfortunately it happens, it happens on a large scale!
Just imagine the situation while you were dependent on your spouse, thinking them to be trustworthy, loyal and reliable without even checking the information and details they ever gave you. Suddenly everything gets changed and the surrounding around you starts to fade out of the view. The person, your so called spouse, is no longer the same person you have committed or married few months or years back. You both might have grown together in your imagination, it was you who grew and they were busy in their own world.
Your spouse’s indifferent attitude might be due to a different reason and you were thinking and trying to look yourself to blame. While you were thinking that had you done something different or said something in a different way then it could have been better, they were busy in appreciating and missing someone else.
Now the time has come when you realize that you are not the one to blame for this type of attitude from your spouse. You both were supposed to have an open communication with each other being partner and in love but they have been telling your lies and saying things that they were supposed to but never willing to.
Remember, you were more likely to do and share the holding of things together and picking them up while your partner was not available or distant and withdrawn. If your partner has been doing things that they were rightful and supposed to do then they could never have the time or reason to stray away from this relationship and have a fling. There is no excuse for your spouse cheating on you.
They say there are always some reasons why a person cheats and they try to stay away from their current relationship. The common reasons might include
- Looking for desired emotional connection
- Every affair is different and so is their reason for involvement
- Sexual motivation for infidelity
- Getting support or financial benefits
- Better prospects of future
While men are more likely to cite sex as the primary and usual reason for infidelity, they are less likely to fall in true love with their temporary partner. However, a woman always tends to have an emotional connection with their partner and likely to have an affair just because of the loneliness.
Some people have relationships while they are unhappy in their current relationship while some might be a lot happy in their relationship but still cheat. It might be out of excitement, by chance or just an infatuation towards someone pretty or handsome. Simply put, you cannot justify this act and a big list of such cases and example can be best viewed on Cheating Spouses Website. Beware and keep your eyes open!