Paul is a complete bum. This guy is divorced three times, and doesnt even take care of his own children. What kind of man doesnt provide for his children? Paul has been married and divorced three times. He has been physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive with at least two of his wives. This guy likes to control everything in his life, and yes his wifes. He will play emotional head games with you.
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I, too, dated him. He now lives in Memphis. Paul regularly moves from state to state and goes by the names John Simon, John Swink, and Paul John Swink. He was diagnosed as a Sociopath with Narcissistic Personality Disorder by the Navy before they dishonorably discharged him while in Tech School for being caught with crack/cocaine on multiple occasions in 2011. He has three children by three different women, and he’s never helped take care of his kids in any way, whatsoever. He is abusive emotionally, mentally, and physically toward every woman (and man) he dates, lives with, and marries. He pushes the “love at first sight” dream very quickly and makes you believe that your relationship with him is destined. He doesn’t believe it and pushes this idea in order to get what he wants from you.
Be very careful around him and do not let this sociopath into your life. He can and will easily charm the pants off you and everyone you know until they finally see him for what he truly is. You’ll begin seeing signs of this behavior almost immediately. Don’t ignore them! If you do, he will destroy your life and disappear along with everything you own while you’re busy picking up the pieces of the illusory life you once believed you shared with him.