If you live in the Chicago vicinity and were on a dating app or site in the last 6 months – you’ve likely come across Keith House.

Even though Keith is 34 years old and originally from Joliet and currently lives outside of the city, he casts a wide net.

His potential prospects range in age from barely legal to nearly retired. The longest relationships he’s maintained to date, however, are all with women 5+ years older than him, with one exceeding his birthdate by more than a decade.

Keith is an avid golfer and well traveled because of the sport so he comes across as “mature” initially. However, he’s young at heart, attractive and nearly always would choose to go out vs. stay in – especially any evening that includes alcohol, pot and other drugs…or the prospect of sex.

Naturally outgoing, he’s no stranger to social settings (i.e. bars). If you happen to meet him at one – he’ll comes across as trustworthy, genuine and considerate.

When/if you google him, you’ll find nothing to persuade you otherwise. His FaceBook profile portrays a golfer and loyal friend/family member.

However, most cheaters – I encourage anyone who considers dating Keith long-term to look past the person he portrays himself to be initially.

When Keith and I dated, he was the one who pushed for us to be committed – and claimed to want to be in a relationship. His scheduled allowed the lies to remain hidden for longer than a normal relationship would have.

Do not feel badly about verifying his stories – once things seem amiss. If you think something seems off about his behavior or how he is acting. You’re right.

Check his messages, look at his Snapchat, set him up with a friend on one of the apps he frequents if you need to prove it to yourself.

is young at heart “fun” time if 3-5+ older. Consistently, I missed the clear signs that childhood issues with women criteria ranges from barely legal to barely breathing (age-wise) and I personally exceed 5 years his senior when we connected.

There’s no method to his madness when it comes to keeping his options open. He’ll pursue any and all opportunities to show a woman his penis.

Of the hundreds (if not thousands) who have been with Keith, I maintained what I thought was a committed, serious relationship for several years. He met and spent extensive time with my kids. I met his friends and family. We were considering moving in together.

Regardless of the sex, if any of the latter is what you’re looking for in someone – just know pursuing a relationship with Keith House is only going to slow you down on the path to finding him.