his guy is a degenerate, a liar, cheater & a fucking coward! He uses women! He started his plenty of fish profile (derekm209) “looking for a relationship” while still in a relationship. He started it after 8 months together and right before I would take him on a weekend getaway for his birthday! Selfish & narcissistic! Throughout our relationship he would go silent on me & I wouldn’t hear from him for about a week at a time (now I know he was cheating during those times). I didn’t think he was cheating at the time, I’m super busy too & very rarely texted during the week but when he went silent like that I would check in & see if he was still interested in the relationship or wanted to part ways. He always came back, stating some bullshit excuse about how he was just busy with work (yeah, working on other girls) but things would go back to being good between us. Things started to get really serious, and then all of a sudden he started being very distant with me & acting shady. A little internet research & bam – his plenty of fish & OKCupid profiles!
When confronted he couldn’t even have a conversation with me about it – he’s a HUGE coward! I tried to get him to talk to me face-to-face, he wouldn’t do it – just ignored me. I tried to get him to talk over text – he wouldn’t do it. The only thing he did tell me was I was “overthinking” things – classic manipulation tactic! But that’s what I get for asking a boy to do a man’s job! He’s just a child (25) who cannot communicate anything! Instead of telling me that he wanted to see other people, or just plain ol’ wanted to break up (like a man) he just started playing games & then fired up his online dating profiles & ignored me. Complete coward.