This woman is my husband’s ex wife. she cheated during their marriage and had another man’s baby. time goes on its 17 years later I find her name in his instant message list. screaming and crying leads to an admission of a emotional affair and a sexual encounter. now all my nightmares have come true. I was a good wife and I don’t understand what went wrong. he is begging for another chance…to be the husband he used to be. I’m not sure where this is headed all I know is I see him in a whole new light.and as for her…still remarkably homewrecking who’re she always was. be careful if you be friend her your man might come up missing. look under her bed.