Dates multiple women. I was one of at least 3. He had a gf for 2.5 years. I was the #2 gf. I didn't find that out till after I broke up with him. And there was at least one more since I got chlamydia from him and his 2.5 year gf didn't know about that. I had to tell her. He tries to make you believe that it's all in your head when you start figuring out he's cheating. He tries to enhance any insecurities you may have and then tells you that is why you think he's cheating. He lied about having cancer. Who freaking does that?!?! All to cover up his lies and attempts to manipulate. I believe him to be a true sociopath. He's a very mean, insecure, negative and critical man. Stay away at all costs ladies.